Chosing tthe frames tou want t have onion skin

I use flash sometimes and it really helps.

I think the best thing to have would be just like Flash, where you can drag that box to set which frames get onion skinned:

Hopefully I can get this done in the next update or the one after

Is there onion skin already?

Yep - you can enable it by clicking the small onion icon near the timeline:

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